This is not your average pro-homeschool post. I do believe in tests once in a while. I do believe in textbooks, if only for foundations, for about 50% of the subjects. I believe in balance.
When homeschooling, the question of “Am I doing enough?” always seems to plague our minds. Trust me, it plagues mine on a daily basis.
I was in public school for four years. In that time, was I remember is review review review. We were still spelling “a” and “I” in third grade. The class goes as fast as the slowest student. I know this isn’t the case in every classroom or school, but this is my experience.
On a teacher’s board on Pinterest, I saw an advertisement for a free printable. It said “Common Core states by third grade students should know the three branches of government.” Funny, I don’t remember learning anything outside of our state, let alone the government. If I had never gone to public school, I would have become paranoid about not knowing the three branches of government in 3rd grade.
According to this article, third graders should know state locations and capitals. The only reason I knew all of my states and capitals was because another student and I taught ourselves from a dictionary (it had a map in the back) and a large blank map of the US at recess.
At the same time, I read another story of a homeschooler who was 16…and still hadn’t started high school yet (for no reason other than the mom didn’t want him to graduate at 18.). Yikes.
Firstly, YOU know your child best. You know what his strengths and weaknesses are. YOU know what he loves and what he doesn’t.
Your neighbor: How do you get socialization? You: How do you get an education?
Am I doing too much?
On average, an 8th grade homeschooler is 4 years ahead of her peers. And, out of the 8 hours spent in public school, less than 2 are spent actually in engaged learning. (SOURCE: hsclassroom.net)
If you’re stressed trying to double up or be a year advanced, then yes, you are doing too much. If your child is a grade ahead and you’re still pushing, you’re doing too much. If you’ve worked more than an hour on decimals and fractions with your fifth grader, it’s too much.
Also, note from my public school elementary experience, we only finished about 75% of the textbook. If it’s June and you’ve finished 80% of the textbook, you’re OK. Remember, many homeschool-textbooks are advanced (A Beka, Saxon) anyway. Remember, you don’t need to do all those crafts and supplements you see your home schooled neighbor do.
What can you do about it? Just relax. Have a movie-pajama day, go to the park and just play, bake some chocolate chip cookies, do what the kids want to do, just have fun for a while! There is nothing wrong with taking a break – a few days or a week – in your homeschool.
Here is a basic run-down of the notable things your child needs to know. Check your state requirements for a more in-depth look. I know my state (Indiana) has pretty relaxed requirements overall.
By third grade, students are introduced to nouns, verbs, and adjectives. By at least sixth grade, they should be aware of the rest of the parts of speech (adverb, pronoun, preposition, conjunction). More advanced learners can learn indirect objects, direct objects, object of prepositions, noun of direct adjectives, and others. (Note: Many public-schooled seventh graders don’t know many parts of speech beyond nouns, verbs, and adjectives.)
Geography – Note, I know some high schoolers who can’t name three countries in Asia. What in sweet heaven’s name have they been doing in history and geography? Point is, if you’re trying to memorize a world map to no avail, save your sanity.
Catch up Days / 4 Days a Week Homeschool
I personally don’t recommend year-round 4-days-a-week homeschooling “textbook-free” is the brightest idea, especially for college-bound students. Who wants to do school year-round? Being the way I am, I enjoy structure and organization and I do not want to do any schoolwork other than reading history over the summer. But, if this works for you, I don’t discourage it.
Agree? Disagree? Have anything to add? I’d love to hear your thoughts!